tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1892710524922689903.post5429665809432713087..comments2024-02-29T04:32:47.728-07:00Comments on The Writing Groomer: My Head Forgot to Tell My Heart...The Writing Groomerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07701100827882727464noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1892710524922689903.post-52557687017564145792013-06-09T10:15:42.455-06:002013-06-09T10:15:42.455-06:00Alechka,
Thank you so much for taking the time to...Alechka,<br /><br />Thank you so much for taking the time to comment. It is always nice to know that others share similar issues to me, and I'm glad you feel better, as I do, knowing that you aren't the only one. <br /><br />Actually, I am in therapy and have a psychiatrist. I can only afford to go to therapy every other week or so, and there is SO much ground to cover in one hour that it is hard to cover every topic that I need to. I am finding that this blog is a good place to work things out in between sessions. (Also, do you live in or near a big city? I am going to a place for therapists who have graduated from school or are close to graduating and are working on getting the hours they need to be certified. They charge based on income and are much cheaper than any other place. You might look to see if there is something like that near where you live.)<br /><br />I have some friends I can talk to. The problem is that I am the listener in most of my friendships, so sometimes it is hard to hold somebody else's attention for very long when they are accustomed to being the one who can spill their problems. And thank you so much for offering your friendship to me, it means the world to me.<br /><br />Thank you so much for your comment.<br />The Writing GroomerThe Writing Groomerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07701100827882727464noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1892710524922689903.post-87957790894125729852013-06-08T21:20:13.965-06:002013-06-08T21:20:13.965-06:00Jennifer. Answering just one of your questions. Ye...Jennifer. Answering just one of your questions. Yes, i read your blog and I find my problems related to yours in some ways. I've got the same darn issues. And you know, i feel better knowing that I'm not the only one. One of the ways to solve all this s... is talking to pshychiatrist. I will definetily do it in the future. Just don't have enough money right now. I really hope you won't find this offending, I am absolutely sincere. <br />Do you have a friend to talk to? It's overwhelming to hold your emotions inside. It's important to express your thought and find compassion. Diary is a good thing to but it can't replace a live person.<br />Please, stay strong :) i'm among your friends on fb my name is Alechka so if you want to talk send me a message. I've been reading your blog for around half a year now. First i was interested in grooming but since i got to know you, i find you a very nice person. <br />Insomniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14141505432106156745noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1892710524922689903.post-89919906224756669632013-06-02T06:25:06.549-06:002013-06-02T06:25:06.549-06:00Cherry,
Thank you so much for taking the time to ...Cherry,<br /><br />Thank you so much for taking the time to respond to this post. I really wasn't sure if anybody would sit through that entire rambling mess.<br /><br />Yes, I have tried online dating. Most of the time I actually get as far as meeting a guy, it doesn't matter how many pics they've seen of me or how much I've told them I'm overweight, they're always too put off by me. My worst horror story is the time I was supposed to meet a guy out front of a restaurant. A few minutes after we were supposed to meet, a guy, not the one I had been talking to (not only did he look completely different but his voice was different too, so it was definitely not the same guy), poked his head out of the restaurant door, asked if I was waiting for somebody and who I was, then looked down at his phone, looked at me, then said Sorry, wrong person. Shortly after that I got a text from the guy saying he was stuck at work and could we reschedule. I never heard from him again. I think he had a friend of his check me out before he could be bothered to spend any money on me. Then, the very last guy I ever met online really liked my personality, but no matter how hard he tried, he just could not be sexually attracted to me. That was its own form of nightmare.<br /><br />And I fully agree, I do know that I need to start loving myself and make some changes, I just for the life of me can't figure out HOW. I guess if I figure it out, I'll post it here so that you may also benefit. ;-)<br /><br />Anyway, thanks again for commenting, it is always nice to know that I am being heard.<br /><br />The Writing GroomerThe Writing Groomerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07701100827882727464noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1892710524922689903.post-57167488813783210902013-06-02T03:21:43.517-06:002013-06-02T03:21:43.517-06:00You can and will find love when the time is right....You can and will find love when the time is right. Have you tried online dating sites? I had the best luck with match, found my husband of 4 years now. I too have a problem with eating too much, being lazy, and overweight. I honestly don't know why my husband has interest in me, because emotionally I am all over the place too. I think we both know the answer is to start loving ourselves, make changes to better ourselves from inside out. I just want to know how to really start and heal the emotional damage that I know is blocking the way. cherrynoreply@blogger.com